If you are with a good man, trust an know that he is a good man. Try not to compare him to trifflen men of your past and try not to predict his mistakes.
Love him and know that he loves you too.
Now dont get me wrong, they are a MAN so they may act like a GUY every once in a while, but dont be too harsh on Him.
Ladies, when you hang with the girls you know you would mention if a man was fine or if you saw an attractive smart brotha walk around you and your girls know you would have something to say about him. Thats what us girls do. SO dont get mad if the fellas do the same when they are with their boys.
Now if you have a good man you know that he only wants you, he will do whatever he can to treat you like a queen, he will never mention or drool over a girl infront of you, he will respect you and be sensitive to your feelings as BEST AS HE CAN (HES NOT PERFECT)
Now if your man is sneaky and flirts with girls and makes you feel uncomfortable and you brought to his attention how you felt and that did not help, MAYBE you should evaluate your relationship. But if you claim to have a good one and you have a good one, treat him like a good one. He will treat you with the same respect he gives you.
So ladies, if you have a good one, appreciate him and dont be too catty with him. As i say this to you I say this to myself. I have a good one and sometimes I be trippin (ILL ADMIT IT THIS ONCE ONLY). But he knows i love him and we know how to laugh about stuff.
Ladies learn to laugh more. Less arguing, less getting hurt over everything. Lets be more playful in our relationships. When we all first started dating, Im sure we were all playful and lively with our partners. Lets not loose that funness in our relationships ladies.
Lets remember what made us fall in love with our men in the first place.
I love you ladies. Take care ♥♥♥♥
“Encouraging, Empowering and Uplifting Women who Fellowship in Christ!”
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